No Means No!

Just look how far we’ve… oh wait. Nevermind.

Suzie Speaks


When I was at University I worked at a local bar that was about ten minutes walk away from the apartment that I lived in. One Saturday afternoon I was on my way to a shift that started at 4.00pm. I was wearing a baggy blue checked shirt with the logo of the bar on it, long black trousers and a sturdy pair of black boots. I wasn’t wearing any make-up, my hair was tied up and I was minding my own business. Suddenly, I heard a man shout:

“Oi! Sexy! Where are you going?”

I turned around, thinking it was one of my friends. I didn’t recognise this man or his friend and so I turned around and carried on walking.

“Aww, don’t walk away! Where are you going? Give me your number!”

I ignored him, but the sound of his voice didn’t get any quieter. They were obviously…

View original post 1,107 more words


“Anonymity is l…

“Anonymity is like virginity in that sense… it only happens once. ” – Lana Wachowski

Maintain as much control as you can over your visibility in this world. We are typically too quick to unveil parts of ourselves without deciding the best context in which these pieces should come into universal light. Stay anonymous until your true self wills itself to the surface, then you may de-virginize your invisibility with delight and care.